Lingerie That Women Like – Sexy, Not Slutty

Posted on April 29, 2009 by in Uncategorized

sexy-lingerieA girlfriend and I were discussing lingerie this weekend.  Some women love it, some women hate it, and some women simply don’t see the point.  (For what it’s worth, I think a survey of men would show a similar split.)


I like the idea of lingerie.  I like that it says “Hey, I’m making an effort here”.  And while I will never be one of those women who prances around in lace on a daily (or nightly) basis, it’s nice to have something to pull out for special occasions.

Unless it makes me feel stupid.

Lingerie should make a woman feel sexy.  A woman who feels sexy will always be more sexy to a man than a woman who is painfully uncomfortable and worrying about whether or not she looks stupid or if a fat roll is poking out between straps.  Obsessing over fat rolls is never sexy.

Here are 3 examples of lingerie that hit the sexy and not slutty note perfectly.


Striped Gown from Shop The Bunny

Why this works:

Black is sexy in any shape and size.  It’s also see through without being completely see through.  A hint of mystery is nice, especially if you’re used to having sex with the lights off.  The length makes a woman feel luxurious – and doesn’t distract her with thoughts of “are my ass cheeks hanging out of this?”


Biskay Knot Chemise from HerRoom

Why this works:

You don’t have to go floor length for comfortable coverage.  This chemise is a short, flirty length that still covers your butt.  The sex appeal comes from the plunging neckline.  I really like this piece because it’s unique and a little bit more elegant than what you’d normally find in a lingerie store.  Also?  Reversible.  Yeah.


Chiffon Babydoll with Matching Choker

Why this works:

Yes, a matching choker.  I’m not here to judge.icon Seriously though – all S&M jokes aside – the added effect of the satin choker is pretty sexy.  It’s a little edgier than your typical nightgown, but still loose and flowy enough to make a woman feel comfortable.

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Posted on April 29, 2009 by in Uncategorized


8 Responses to “Lingerie That Women Like – Sexy, Not Slutty”
  1. I wish I had the body for #1! I love that one.

  2. Sybil LawNo Gravatar says:

    I still maintain my sexiness in my wife beater and boy shorts!
    But some of those might work, too. :)

  3. HillyNo Gravatar says:

    These are absolutely perfect!

  4. FinnNo Gravatar says:

    Excellent choices! That first one made me go hmmm initially, but the more I look at it the more I like it. And it’s black, so there’s that.

  5. AvitableNo Gravatar says:

    I don’t know, as a man, I think that first one is pretty slutty.

  6. Steve says the sexiest thing I ever wear is white cotton panties and one of his button downs.

    I have a drawer full of lingerie that gets pulled out for special occasions. It’s fun, but I never spend $$$ on it. Usually just $.

    I own that first gown. It is sexy as hell.

  7. PS, what’s wrong with being slutty on occasion?

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